The relationship map
Blood-relation questions sit on a small family tree with three or four generations: grandparents, parents, the people in the puzzle, and sometimes their children.
Every question is really asking you to follow a path along that tree. The work is to build the tree correctly from the wording; once it is drawn, the answer is a short walk from one person to another. Nothing depends on names or ages unless the puzzle states them.
Relationship vocabulary
- Paternal means on the father's side, maternal on the mother's side. Your father's brother is your paternal uncle; your mother's brother is your maternal uncle.
- In-laws come through marriage: your spouse's brother and your sister's husband are both your brother-in-law; your son's wife is your daughter-in-law.
- Nephew and niece are your sibling's children. Your cousin is your uncle's or aunt's child.
- Sibling covers brother or sister without stating which. Spouse covers husband or wife.
- Two people are of the same generation if the same number of parent-steps separates each from a shared ancestor.
Draw a family diagram
Use one fixed set of marks so the picture never lies:
- A triangle for a male, a circle for a female, a plain box when the sex is unknown.
- A double line between two people who are married.
- A vertical line dropping to their children, with siblings side by side on one level.
- Keep every person of one generation on the same horizontal level, parents above, children below.
A --=-- B double line = married
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+----+----+ vertical line = children
C D C and D on one level = siblingsAdd each fact to the diagram as you read it, and never carry a half-formed picture in your head.
Pointing-to-a-photo statements
A speaker points at someone and describes them through a chain like "the only son of my grandfather's daughter". Work the chain from the far end back to the speaker:
- Start at the last noun ("my grandfather") and move outward one link at a time.
- Replace every "my" and "I" with the speaker once the chain is built.
- Use words like "only" — "the only daughter of X" tells you X has no other daughters, which often pins the person down.
- Read the relationship of that person to the speaker off the finished diagram.
Coded relations
Here each symbol fixes one relationship, and you are handed an expression to evaluate. A common key is:
A + Bmeans A is the father of B.A - Bmeans A is the mother of B.A * Bmeans A is the brother of B.A / Bmeans A is the sister of B.
Build the expression left to right, one link at a time, drawing each into the diagram. The final question — say, how A relates to the last person — is then read straight off the picture. The sex of the end person is often not needed for the answer.
Worked example
1. Pointing. Pointing at a boy, Meera says, "His mother is the only daughter of my mother's father." How is the boy related to Meera?
Start at the far end: "my mother's father" is Meera's maternal grandfather. "The only daughter of" him — since he has just one daughter, and Meera's mother is a daughter of his — is Meera's mother. So the boy's mother is Meera's mother, which makes the boy Meera's brother.
2. Coded. With + for father, - for mother, * for brother, evaluate P + Q - R * S and state how P relates to S.
P + Q: P is Q's father. Q - R: Q is R's mother. R * S: R is S's brother, so R and S share the parent Q. Q is the mother of S, and P is the father of Q. P is therefore the father of S's mother, that is, S's maternal grandfather.
Common mistakes
- Assuming a sex the puzzle never gave — reading "child" as "son", or "cousin" as male.
- Confusing an uncle with a brother-in-law, or a paternal uncle with a maternal one, when the side is stated.
- Working a pointing statement front to back, which tangles the "my" references.
- Ignoring "only" — "the only son" is often the fact that makes the answer unique.
- Mixing levels in the diagram, so a cousin ends up drawn as a sibling.
- Answering with a sex the question did not ask for, such as "grandson" when "grandchild" is all that follows.
Practice
Key for the coded items: + father, - mother, * brother, / sister. Give the answer and a one-line reason.
A - B + C: how is A related to C?M * N - O: how is M related to O?P / Q * R: how is P related to R?- Pointing at a woman, Rohan says, "She is the daughter of my father's only son." Rohan has no brothers. Who is she to Rohan?
- "Sudha's father is my father's son, and I have no brothers or sisters." How is the speaker related to Sudha?
X + Y / Z: how is X related to Z?- K is the son of L. L is the sister of M. M is married to N. How is K related to N?